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Making the Best Better

There are two things that every youth who goes through 4-H learns. They are the 4-H Motto and 4-H Pledge. They were quoted, along with the Pledge of Allegiance, before every meeting when I was in 4-H – ten years as a member, and another ten as an advisor. They are as follows:

4-H Motto:

“To make the best better.”

4-H Pledge:

“I pledge my head to clearer thinking, my heart to greater loyalty, my hands to larger service, and my health to better living, for my club, my community, my country, and my world.”

The motto and pledge are an encouragement for 4-H youth to strive for excellence in all that they do. Further, it means to never settle for what you think is your best – because there’s always room for improvement.

But, there’s more than just striving to do, and be, your best. The pledge ends with “… for my club, my community, my country, and my world.” It’s a reminder that what each person does ultimately doesn’t just affect them. Each part of our life ultimately affects others – whether we realize it or not. We should – no, we must – do our best, because others are depending on us. People see how much we value, care for and love them by how well we serve them.

How often do we strive to do our best? Just consider how many people are impacted by our words and actions. Are we careful to do our best – or, are we careless? I don’t know of too many people who are happy to receive a mediocre product or service. Just imagine a doctor who didn’t take the time to listen to your questions. Or, what if Albert Einstein gave up on the light bulb after the fiftieth time that he couldn’t get it to work?

Unfortunately, it appears as if too many people are content at just getting by. But, what would happen if we really cared about other people? What if we took the time to really try to do our best – and constantly improve on it? What would families and marriages look like? How would students do in school – and in their afterschool activities? Consider how people might do their jobs differently. And, consider how politicians would govern. Would we continue to have to endure such divisive, political games and manipulative tactics?

So many of us act like our own lives, interests and possessions are the most important thing in the world. But, how would it look if we put others first? What if we pledged our head, heart, hands and health to better living – to looking out for the welfare and betterment of others? Perhaps, it might also help to simplify our lives as we most likely would have a new focus on life.

This is what Christ did when He came to earth to die for us. He put us first, and gave us the very best, when He left the perfection of Heaven to die for us – as ungrateful as we often are. Jesus died, and was brought back to life, so that we might have eternal life with God – if we would seek God’s forgiveness and humbly accept Christ as our Lord and Savior.

As I think about the 4-H Motto and Pledge, I’m reminded of the words of martyred missionary, Jim Elliott. He said:

He is no fool who gives what he cannot keep to gain that which he cannot lose.

We must realize that life is not about us. It’s about serving God, and then others. This is a foundational truth in each of our lives – whether we are willing to admit it, or not. When we truly care about others, we can find real joy and a sincere willingness to do our very best at any job.

In closing, please consider the following.

Who do we love? This will often determine who we working are for – and, who we are serving. Are we willing to settle for mediocrity – or, are we giving our best efforts in an attempt to always serve others better? Do we show love and concern for those who we come into contact with?

By striving to give all of us – our head, heart, hands and health, imagine how each of us can impact others’ lives. Think how individuals, communities, our nation – and even the world, can be impacted through each of us practicing humility, love, forgiveness, grace and hard work in a continual attempt to serve one another better.

Have a great day! 🙂

“Do nothing out of selfish ambition or vain conceit. Rather, in humility value others above yourselves, not looking to your own interests but each of you to the interests of the others.” – Philippians 2:3-4 (NIV)

(This was first published at theroadreport.wordpress.com.)

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Do Your Best

It was another Friday evening and I was washing some dust off of my truck before going home from work. I wanted to make sure that the truck was clean for the following Monday morning – and, the start of another work week.

After another busy day, I was looking forward to heading home to spend the evening with my family. As I finished up, I thought back to a childhood lesson that my parents taught my sister and me.

Growing up, Dad and Mom insisted on us doing our best at whatever we were involved in. Whether it be academics, sports, extracurricular activities or anything else, my sister and I were expected to be diligent and give our very best efforts. Our parents didn’t expect us to be the quickest, but they wanted us to grow as we learned responsibility and the importance of doing a job that was well-done.

Along those lines, I thought back to two comments made by different customers in the last few days. One person had commented on how clean the truck was (I didn’t point out the dust on the back of the truck!). Another individual had asked if the vehicle was new. (It’s a couple of years old.).

It was nice to receive both compliments. Yet, as I was rinsing off the truck, it made also think about how often we do work that is subpar, or even mediocre.

When we don’t do our best, people often use that as a basis to judge us. They may also critique our relationship with God by how well we live out our lives as we serve others through our families, work and other activities.

The reality is that God doesn’t expect us to be experts – the best at whatever we do. Yet, He wants us to give our best as an offering to Him. How we live every facet of our lives is an opportunity to bring praise or insult to God.

Most people don’t think of dirty work vehicles as being part of a testimony to God’s greatness. Yet, we can show love and gratitude to God in even the most obscure and trivial matters.

Have a great day!😀

“And whatever you do, whether in word or deed, do it all in the name of the Lord Jesus, giving thanks to God the Father through Him.” – Colossians 3:17 (NIV)

(This was first published at theroadreport.wordpress.com.)

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Life and Boots

Work boots are one of my favorite forms of footwear. Ever since I was a young boy, I appreciated the hard work that they represented. Since then, steel toes have protected my feet many times. And if I’m being completely honest, since I’ve always been a bit vertically-challenged, I like the additional height that they offer.

These work boots have traveled a lot of miles – quite literally. In addition, they’ve supported a lot of weight – mine, and the heavy, bulky construction materials that I often have to shoulder. After wearing them for over two years, they’re finally worn to the point that they will need to be replaced soon.

My boots don’t look nice anymore. The leather is faded and cracked – with holes developing in the toes. They are tattered and worn – having survived many seasons of both weather and life. If you were to talk about them with my wife, she may also tell you that they don’t smell very nice, either!

These work boots resemble how some of us may feel. We may feel battered, worn and exhausted by life – like we’re falling apart. Fortunately, God never says that we’re too old to have value, or worn beyond usefulness.

This picture reminds us of the importance of hard work and commitment. It also is a reminder that young boys will become men one day, so parents, let’s raise them up well.

Have a great day! 🙂

(This was first published at theroadreport.wordpress.com.)

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Dreams, Hats and Trucks

Recently our son asked my wife and me what he should be someday.  His mind has already come up with some interesting ideas of jobs that he would love to pursue.  So, his question was interesting.

As I think about his question, I’m thinking of one of my own childhood dreams – having a few trucks.  It was my plan to one day hand that business over to my son.  Like the picture shows, I wanted him to follow in my steel-toed footsteps – right down to having similar Peterbilt caps – his, of course is the “Future Trucker” one.

I know that there are some who would say that I shouldn’t want to pass on my career dreams to my son.  My parents didn’t even do that for me – since they knew that trucking isn’t an easy business to be in.  Yet, there’s something about wanting to share a dream with your child and seeing them become excited with the same things that interest you.

As parents, we want our children to grow up into healthy, responsible adults.  We want to see them become compassionate individuals who care about others and seek to do their best at serving others.  .

While trucking continues to fascinate me, I’m learning that part of parenting is allowing children to make their own choices.  It doesn’t mean that you don’t offer then advice, but rather, being there for them – coaching and cheering them on so that they will make wise decisions.

Who knows, perhaps one day, I may still end up with trucks.  Perhaps, my son will decide on his own to be a trucker, as well.  But, if none of that happens, then we’ll meet whatever the future holds with excitement knowing that the Creator’s plans are best.

Have a great day!

(This was first published at theroadreport.wordpress.com.)

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Be Like Maynard

While making a delivery at a house some time ago, two young brothers were riding bikes near my truck.  While I was unloading, the older one who was perhaps about six, stopped to talk to me several times.

At one point, he told me that his father worked for a man named “Maynard”.  Then, the boy said that he wanted to work for Maynard someday, too.

Well, I’m not sure who Maynard is.  But apparently, he must be a pretty nice man.

Since that day, I’ve thought several times about that conversation that I had with that young boy.

Each one of us has countless opportunities to make impressions on people.

How often do we take time to show kindness to those who we come into contact with – even little children?  Do people see that we genuinely care about them?  Or, do they feel like they’re an inconvenience to us as we hurry through our days?

The fact that that young boy wants to work for his father’s boss also says something.  If you’re an employer or manager, would your employees recommend that their children seek employment under you?

As we go through each day, let’s be conscientious of the people who cross our paths.  How we treat them may impact them in ways that we will never know.  Let us treat others in a way that they know that they’re valued by God – and us.

Have a great day!

(This was first published at theroadreport.wordpress.com.)

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