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On Valentine’s Day, many people exchange cards and give heart-shaped candies, chocolates and other gifts that offer sweet expressions of love.  A little angel, a Cherub named Cupid, is said to be the instigator of much of this emotional bliss – as his arrows are said to make people fall in love with one another.

While it wasn’t candy or chocolates, my wife made heart-shaped pancakes for our Valentine’s Day breakfast.  Covered with butter and maple syrup, they made for a very delicious treat.  That meal is just one of the countless examples of love that my wife shows towards me and our son – on a daily basis.

However, there’s so much more to Valentine’s Day than sweet foods and little angelic beings.

There are many legends surrounding the origins of Valentine’s Day.  Several of them include different Priests, named “Valentine”.  In many of these stories, these men died as they promoted the ideals of love and marriage.

Think about it!  They gave their lives as they attempted to help others find love.  Their example mirrored another man who gave the greatest gift – His life, for the love of others.  Jesus came to earth to give His life as a living sacrifice.  He chose to die for all of humanity.  It’s an ultimate expression of that love to allow us to have the choice whether or not to accept His great gift.

We live in a world where love is often shown with cards, sweet treats and hundreds of other gifts and trinkets.  In addition, Hollywood wants us to think that love is centered around candle-lit dinners and romance.

Yet, true love is much more.  It is sacrificial giving and forgiveness.  Love is honoring, protecting and looking out for another.  In the end, real love isn’t something that’s quickly discarded and forgotten.  Rather, it’s sacrificial giving and serving – putting others ahead of ourselves.

On this Valentine’s Day, consider the cost of real love.  Know that you’re worth it – an empty grave and a risen Savior proves that.  Now, it’s up to us to show His love to others.

Happy Valentine’s Day!

“Love is patient, love is kind.  It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud.  It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs.  Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth.  It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.  Love never fails…”  –  1 Corinthians 13:4-8a (NIV)

(This was first published at theroadreport.wordpress.com.)

There’s something about old farm scenes that often capture our attention.  Take this box wagon parked in a shed between two corn cribs.  We can visualize the sweat, toil and long hours that were involved in filling those bins with ear corn. 

Yet, there’s something about this photograph that also gives a sense of peace, quiet and solitude.  It brings backs a sense of nostalgia.  In fact, this picture reminds me of a Currier & Ives painting or a scene from a Hallmark movie.

This picture is a contrast to what most of us know today.  We’re used to the hustle and bustle of modern life, as opposed to being forced to travel at the pace of a team of horses – like the ones that would have been used to pull this wagon.  The picture also reminds us of the time and labor once involved in filling those cribs – especially when we consider how modern equipment handles much larger harvests in the same period of time. 

When I see this photograph, it also reminds me of the effort of many hands, often involving the whole family to harvest a crop.  There’s a sense of unity when we think about the relationships that were built as parents and children worked together. 

Seeing this picture is a reminder that we often need to slow down.  Great relationships and good work ethics are both realized when we take our time and invest in them. 

I’m also reminded of the simplicity and beauty of faith.  It’s in these simple illustrations when I sometimes see some of God’s greatest gifts in a new light.   

Let me encourage you to go for a drive in the country.  You never know what you may find. 

Have a great day!  🙂

(This post was first published at: theroadreport.wordpress.com.)